Relationships

Communication

In any relationship, romantic or otherwise, communication is vital. None of us are very good at reading minds, despite how often we may think otherwise, so when one person in a relationship goes silent, the other is left guessing. They may guess correctly, of course. But they also may guess incorrectly, which can lead to …

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Selfishness

At some point in history, women thought it would be a good idea to make it socially acceptable to eat food which their significant other had gotten for themselves.  I suspect it started out by not ordering a large meal at a restaurant (in order to avoid looking like a pig on a date) and …

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All’s Quiet…

I know I have been fairly slack in posting.  Things have been going well, and rather than write yet another post talking about how great Strutter is, and how happy I am to be with her, I’ll just let the blog sit quietly.  I’ll make sure that whatever brings me to write down the road …

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Roller Coasters

What is it that makes a roller coaster so much fun? Is it the fear that you might actually be tossed from the ride?  Do we get on these creations just to flirt with Death?  To make us feel more alive?  I don’t think that’s it.  If we actually believed there was a risk, these …

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Behind the Veil

Time to clear up the fog… So, I’ve mentioned that I’ve been living the Rock Star life since December 1st. Yes, part of this was an attempt to throw myself into life and avoid the depression I knew was looming. Part of this was also because of Strutter. On December 1st, Strutter invited me to …

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The Juggling Act

The biggest fear of a juggler is dropping the first ball. Once that ball is missed, his concentration is broken, his rhythm gets thrown off, and all the other balls are likely to follow suit. But this isn’t the reason that I don’t juggle. I don’t juggle because I’m unable to dedicate my full attention …

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